Pir sensor wiring for nodemcu esp32

[primeroz]

Thank you.

I know but that is not the point. That will onlyaffect esphome

The problem is that if I connect "com" and "NC"  or "com" and "NO" the sensor behaves the same. In both cases it behaves as if it was a Normally open connection.

It does look like there is something wrong with the relay