I made a workaround hack, it is dumb but it works.
Used one of the relays in NO to break GPIO12. and on boot made a sequence so that it switches on (GPIO12 starts working after board has booted)
It ate one of the relay on board, i will wait for the admin for any advice
on_boot:
priority: 600 # Boot priority, ensure it happens after most components have started
then:
- delay: 10s
- switch.turn_on: relay_3